Gujarati weddings

Four pheras rather than seven, and a mother-in-law who tries to catch the groom by the nose.

Before the wedding

1
Mandap Muhurat
A ceremony held before the wedding to clear evil elements from nature.

2
Pokavu
The groom arrives and his mother-in-law tries to pinch his nose, a playful reminder that he has to rub it on the door to ask for her daughter.
3
Jaimala
The first exchange of garlands at the entrance of the hall, the couple's formal acceptance of each other.
4
Madhuparka
Under the mandap, the groom's feet are washed and he is fed milk and honey.
5
Kanyaagaman
The bride's maternal uncle brings her to the mandap, the antarpat is lowered and the couple exchange garlands again.
6
Kanyadaan and Hasta Milap
The bride is given away. Her parents and relatives then place an auspicious cord around the couple's necks.
7
Mangalpheras
Four steps around the sacred fire, for the four human goals of Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha.
8
Sapta Padi
The seven vows for married life. The groom helps the bride touch seven betel nuts with her right toe.

9
Vidaai
The couple take blessings from their elders and leave for the groom's house.
10
Ghar-ki-Laxmi
The groom's mother welcomes her daughter-in-law home.

Every family does things a little differently, so treat this as a guide rather than a rule. Your elders will have the last word.

We can bring the priests, the musicians, the mehndi and the sweets, wherever you marry.

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